still agree with that. it's a stupid standard that hurts and shackles people rather than help them so many loving relationships are torn because an affair, even an emotional one, even if one partner does noting but just develops feelings (100% out of their control), or worse, jealousy. all because monogamy is the standard. ask elder people who were married through most of their lives and they all have stories of those hardships and how it hurt them. wouldn't it be nicer and simpler of cheating was viewed with the same severity as cheating in a diet? rather than being a devastating blow to a relationship and might even lead to severe social punishment? We are animals we need connections and we aren't always in control regarding what connections form.