@JoeHenzi @mweiss @mawhrin Sorry Joe if that sounded dismissive. I am genuinely sorry that anyone has to go through experiences like that. My own experience with assault nearly ruined my marriage. My trauma turned into putting my daughter into martial arts at a young age. I hope I don't pass too much trauma onto her and why I am obsessed with her ability to kick where it matters. I am sure for men, that's not even an option because then you get charged for assault on top of it all too. I have no answers. But I am genuine that I feel angry this happened to you. Nobody should go through this.