@cafechatnoir I feel the same, but diagnosed with ASD. I also constantly have a tab open in my brain on each and every task I need to do during the day (even showering and brushing teeth, yes for me AND my kids and sometimes my ADHD wife, too). And I often think about how to optimize everything all the time, because I constantly feel that there's not enough time to do all the tasks one needs to do every day to be viewed as a responsible adult. It's so exhausting.