It's not "the internet replaces reality"; it's "what are you allowed to do?"

The kids are not allowed to do much and whatever they are permitted happens in a context of continuous scrutiny. (Which is not generally benign scrutiny; it's not like they don't know that.)

If you want something else, reward something else.

(Yes that does mean making it impossible to make money providing scrutiny as a service. Anything that makes money happens; anything with a high rate of return happens more.)