@ives @sundogplanets @lauerhahn @LauraleeDukeshire I gotta say, that phrasing particularly is really bad for me as an autistic person. All I wind up thinking is “I don’t know what you consider familiarity and if it’s the same thing I consider familiar, I wish you’d just give me the background that you think is relevant to your point, and let me filter for myself if it’s useful right now”
It winds up with so many meetings going poorly because there is no universal and usefully external measure of familiarity with a given topic
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I'm an #ActuallyAutistic game programmer. I love design. I'm a particular fan of TTRPGs.
I love to make things, but suffer a big case of new-project-itis. Interests are all over the place.
Not the best at social media, trying to get better at it.
I'm on a journey of (self)discovery, hopefully healing and (self)accommodation.
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@loops@neurodifferent.me
I'm an #ActuallyAutistic game programmer. I love design. I'm a particular fan of TTRPGs. I love to make things, but suffer a big case of new-project-itis. Interests are all over the place. Not the best at social media, trying to get better at it. I'm on a journey of (self)discovery, hopefully healing and (self)accommodation. (avatar from the awesome EFT project - VR Kats by Kazooeybloo https://www.extremelyfungible.com/vr-kats)
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@loops@neurodifferent.me
I'm an #ActuallyAutistic game programmer. I love design. I'm a particular fan of TTRPGs. I love to make things, but suffer a big case of new-project-itis. Interests are all over the place. Not the best at social media, trying to get better at it. I'm on a journey of (self)discovery, hopefully healing and (self)accommodation. (avatar from the awesome EFT project - VR Kats by Kazooeybloo https://www.extremelyfungible.com/vr-kats)
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@loops@neurodifferent.me
I'm an #ActuallyAutistic game programmer. I love design. I'm a particular fan of TTRPGs. I love to make things, but suffer a big case of new-project-itis. Interests are all over the place. Not the best at social media, trying to get better at it. I'm on a journey of (self)discovery, hopefully healing and (self)accommodation. (avatar from the awesome EFT project - VR Kats by Kazooeybloo https://www.extremelyfungible.com/vr-kats)
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Loops 🍑
@loops@neurodifferent.me
I'm an #ActuallyAutistic game programmer. I love design. I'm a particular fan of TTRPGs. I love to make things, but suffer a big case of new-project-itis. Interests are all over the place. Not the best at social media, trying to get better at it. I'm on a journey of (self)discovery, hopefully healing and (self)accommodation. (avatar from the awesome EFT project - VR Kats by Kazooeybloo https://www.extremelyfungible.com/vr-kats)
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@autistics @pathfinder awareness is just fine but what we need is acceptance
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Loops 🍑
@loops@neurodifferent.me
I'm an #ActuallyAutistic game programmer. I love design. I'm a particular fan of TTRPGs. I love to make things, but suffer a big case of new-project-itis. Interests are all over the place. Not the best at social media, trying to get better at it. I'm on a journey of (self)discovery, hopefully healing and (self)accommodation. (avatar from the awesome EFT project - VR Kats by Kazooeybloo https://www.extremelyfungible.com/vr-kats)
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Loops 🍑
@loops@neurodifferent.me
I'm an #ActuallyAutistic game programmer. I love design. I'm a particular fan of TTRPGs. I love to make things, but suffer a big case of new-project-itis. Interests are all over the place. Not the best at social media, trying to get better at it. I'm on a journey of (self)discovery, hopefully healing and (self)accommodation. (avatar from the awesome EFT project - VR Kats by Kazooeybloo https://www.extremelyfungible.com/vr-kats)
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Friends are the people who try their best to show up when you really need them. People who care a lot about how you act in every moment are an audience.
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