Naga (he/him)

@naga@toot.cat

I'm a disabled (severe #MECFS), #ActuallyAutistic, queer, white person in my 50s, living in North Carolina in the US. Queer, in my case -> Something not readily defined or labeled, as opposed to Queer -> fuck you. Having spent most of my life looking to the world like a cis-het man, I don't feel I readily own that. I'm progressing on my GenderQuest and currently sitting at demiman. The other part may be #agender or #GenderQueer more generally, or both. I'm not sure. My presentation is #GenderFluid or #GenderFuck, somewhere in there. My sexual orientation is "kinky." I'm gray-ace: I'm sexually pulled toward the person tying me up, largely regardless of gender or anatomy. Outside of kink, I don't really have a sexual orientation at all. My aesthetic appreciations are broad, tilted toward femme people, but not exclusively, and aren't particularly linked to my sexuality. I'm the owned and collared pet dragon of my wife, Jalan. Dragonlet is our (at this writing) nine-year-old nonbinary child. I also have a son in his early 30s from a previous marriage. We're polyamorous. Jalan has a boyfriend, but I don't have energy for another relationship right now. Most of my presence is replies, then boosts, then original posts in occasional bursts. To see just the latter to get a sense of me, try https://justmytoots.com/@naga@toot.cat .