Naga (he/him)
@naga@toot.cat
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I'm a disabled (severe #MECFS), #ActuallyAutistic, queer, white person in my 50s, living in North Carolina in the US.
Queer, in my case -> Something not readily defined or labeled, as opposed to Queer -> fuck you. Having spent most of my life looking to the world like a cis-het man, I don't feel I readily own that.
I'm progressing on my GenderQuest and currently sitting at demiman. The other part may be #agender or #GenderQueer more generally, or both. I'm not sure. My presentation is #GenderFluid or #GenderFuck, somewhere in there.
My sexual orientation is "kinky." I'm gray-ace: I'm sexually pulled toward the person tying me up, largely regardless of gender or anatomy. Outside of kink, I don't really have a sexual orientation at all. My aesthetic appreciations are broad, tilted toward femme people, but not exclusively, and aren't particularly linked to my sexuality.
I'm the owned and collared pet dragon of my wife, Jalan. Dragonlet is our (at this writing) nine-year-old nonbinary child. I also have a son in his early 30s from a previous marriage. We're polyamorous. Jalan has a boyfriend, but I don't have energy for another relationship right now.
Most of my presence is replies, then boosts, then original posts in occasional bursts. To see just the latter to get a sense of me, try https://justmytoots.com/@naga@toot.cat .
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Naga (he/him)
@naga@toot.cat
I'm a disabled (severe #MECFS), #ActuallyAutistic, queer, white person in my 50s, living in North Carolina in the US. Queer, in my case -> Something not readily defined or labeled, as opposed to Queer -> fuck you. Having spent most of my life looking to the world like a cis-het man, I don't feel I readily own that. I'm progressing on my GenderQuest and currently sitting at demiman. The other part may be #agender or #GenderQueer more generally, or both. I'm not sure. My presentation is #GenderFluid or #GenderFuck, somewhere in there. My sexual orientation is "kinky." I'm gray-ace: I'm sexually pulled toward the person tying me up, largely regardless of gender or anatomy. Outside of kink, I don't really have a sexual orientation at all. My aesthetic appreciations are broad, tilted toward femme people, but not exclusively, and aren't particularly linked to my sexuality. I'm the owned and collared pet dragon of my wife, Jalan. Dragonlet is our (at this writing) nine-year-old nonbinary child. I also have a son in his early 30s from a previous marriage. We're polyamorous. Jalan has a boyfriend, but I don't have energy for another relationship right now. Most of my presence is replies, then boosts, then original posts in occasional bursts. To see just the latter to get a sense of me, try https://justmytoots.com/@naga@toot.cat .
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Naga (he/him)
@naga@toot.cat
I'm a disabled (severe #MECFS), #ActuallyAutistic, queer, white person in my 50s, living in North Carolina in the US. Queer, in my case -> Something not readily defined or labeled, as opposed to Queer -> fuck you. Having spent most of my life looking to the world like a cis-het man, I don't feel I readily own that. I'm progressing on my GenderQuest and currently sitting at demiman. The other part may be #agender or #GenderQueer more generally, or both. I'm not sure. My presentation is #GenderFluid or #GenderFuck, somewhere in there. My sexual orientation is "kinky." I'm gray-ace: I'm sexually pulled toward the person tying me up, largely regardless of gender or anatomy. Outside of kink, I don't really have a sexual orientation at all. My aesthetic appreciations are broad, tilted toward femme people, but not exclusively, and aren't particularly linked to my sexuality. I'm the owned and collared pet dragon of my wife, Jalan. Dragonlet is our (at this writing) nine-year-old nonbinary child. I also have a son in his early 30s from a previous marriage. We're polyamorous. Jalan has a boyfriend, but I don't have energy for another relationship right now. Most of my presence is replies, then boosts, then original posts in occasional bursts. To see just the latter to get a sense of me, try https://justmytoots.com/@naga@toot.cat .
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Apr 11, 2026
@pockets "Why asymmetric" is easy for some of these. E.g, food posts and eye-contact don't bother me, but I know they bother significant numbers of people. So I don't need them incoming, but I put them outgoing as courtesy.
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Naga (he/him)
@naga@toot.cat
I'm a disabled (severe #MECFS), #ActuallyAutistic, queer, white person in my 50s, living in North Carolina in the US. Queer, in my case -> Something not readily defined or labeled, as opposed to Queer -> fuck you. Having spent most of my life looking to the world like a cis-het man, I don't feel I readily own that. I'm progressing on my GenderQuest and currently sitting at demiman. The other part may be #agender or #GenderQueer more generally, or both. I'm not sure. My presentation is #GenderFluid or #GenderFuck, somewhere in there. My sexual orientation is "kinky." I'm gray-ace: I'm sexually pulled toward the person tying me up, largely regardless of gender or anatomy. Outside of kink, I don't really have a sexual orientation at all. My aesthetic appreciations are broad, tilted toward femme people, but not exclusively, and aren't particularly linked to my sexuality. I'm the owned and collared pet dragon of my wife, Jalan. Dragonlet is our (at this writing) nine-year-old nonbinary child. I also have a son in his early 30s from a previous marriage. We're polyamorous. Jalan has a boyfriend, but I don't have energy for another relationship right now. Most of my presence is replies, then boosts, then original posts in occasional bursts. To see just the latter to get a sense of me, try https://justmytoots.com/@naga@toot.cat .
toot.cat
Naga (he/him)
@naga@toot.cat
I'm a disabled (severe #MECFS), #ActuallyAutistic, queer, white person in my 50s, living in North Carolina in the US. Queer, in my case -> Something not readily defined or labeled, as opposed to Queer -> fuck you. Having spent most of my life looking to the world like a cis-het man, I don't feel I readily own that. I'm progressing on my GenderQuest and currently sitting at demiman. The other part may be #agender or #GenderQueer more generally, or both. I'm not sure. My presentation is #GenderFluid or #GenderFuck, somewhere in there. My sexual orientation is "kinky." I'm gray-ace: I'm sexually pulled toward the person tying me up, largely regardless of gender or anatomy. Outside of kink, I don't really have a sexual orientation at all. My aesthetic appreciations are broad, tilted toward femme people, but not exclusively, and aren't particularly linked to my sexuality. I'm the owned and collared pet dragon of my wife, Jalan. Dragonlet is our (at this writing) nine-year-old nonbinary child. I also have a son in his early 30s from a previous marriage. We're polyamorous. Jalan has a boyfriend, but I don't have energy for another relationship right now. Most of my presence is replies, then boosts, then original posts in occasional bursts. To see just the latter to get a sense of me, try https://justmytoots.com/@naga@toot.cat .
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Naga (he/him)
@naga@toot.cat
I'm a disabled (severe #MECFS), #ActuallyAutistic, queer, white person in my 50s, living in North Carolina in the US. Queer, in my case -> Something not readily defined or labeled, as opposed to Queer -> fuck you. Having spent most of my life looking to the world like a cis-het man, I don't feel I readily own that. I'm progressing on my GenderQuest and currently sitting at demiman. The other part may be #agender or #GenderQueer more generally, or both. I'm not sure. My presentation is #GenderFluid or #GenderFuck, somewhere in there. My sexual orientation is "kinky." I'm gray-ace: I'm sexually pulled toward the person tying me up, largely regardless of gender or anatomy. Outside of kink, I don't really have a sexual orientation at all. My aesthetic appreciations are broad, tilted toward femme people, but not exclusively, and aren't particularly linked to my sexuality. I'm the owned and collared pet dragon of my wife, Jalan. Dragonlet is our (at this writing) nine-year-old nonbinary child. I also have a son in his early 30s from a previous marriage. We're polyamorous. Jalan has a boyfriend, but I don't have energy for another relationship right now. Most of my presence is replies, then boosts, then original posts in occasional bursts. To see just the latter to get a sense of me, try https://justmytoots.com/@naga@toot.cat .
toot.cat
Naga (he/him)
@naga@toot.cat
I'm a disabled (severe #MECFS), #ActuallyAutistic, queer, white person in my 50s, living in North Carolina in the US. Queer, in my case -> Something not readily defined or labeled, as opposed to Queer -> fuck you. Having spent most of my life looking to the world like a cis-het man, I don't feel I readily own that. I'm progressing on my GenderQuest and currently sitting at demiman. The other part may be #agender or #GenderQueer more generally, or both. I'm not sure. My presentation is #GenderFluid or #GenderFuck, somewhere in there. My sexual orientation is "kinky." I'm gray-ace: I'm sexually pulled toward the person tying me up, largely regardless of gender or anatomy. Outside of kink, I don't really have a sexual orientation at all. My aesthetic appreciations are broad, tilted toward femme people, but not exclusively, and aren't particularly linked to my sexuality. I'm the owned and collared pet dragon of my wife, Jalan. Dragonlet is our (at this writing) nine-year-old nonbinary child. I also have a son in his early 30s from a previous marriage. We're polyamorous. Jalan has a boyfriend, but I don't have energy for another relationship right now. Most of my presence is replies, then boosts, then original posts in occasional bursts. To see just the latter to get a sense of me, try https://justmytoots.com/@naga@toot.cat .
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Mar 02, 2026
#Introduction
I'm Naga. My full screen name is "Naga di Kandang," translating as "Dragon in a Cage."
I'm disabled and unable to work with severe ME/CFS (tipping toward very severe). Also POTS, MCAS, bipolar disorder, anxiety, and other fun things. Autism, but I don't consider that in my case as part of being disabled. When I worked, I was a social and quantitative psychologist and a statistical consultant.
ME/CFS put an end to that. Now I'm focused on entertainment (TV, reading, comics, gaming, etc.) as self-care and being a loyal pet dragon to my wife, Jalan, and father to Dragonlet (grade-schooler).
Meanwhile, I'm gray/ace/pan, some form of genderqueer (demiman?), poly, and kinky AF--with primary kinks of receiving bondage and orgasm control and denial, as well as yielding authority. I like to present genderfluid or genderfuck, especially feeling pretty dressing femme.
I'm here for general social interaction, especially geeky, often horny/sexy/kinky (CW'd), occasionally left-wing political (CW'd), some CripPosting and autism stuff, and parenting.
A whole bunch of hashtags for discoverability will be in a reply to this post.
#Intro #Introductions
I'm Naga. My full screen name is "Naga di Kandang," translating as "Dragon in a Cage."
I'm disabled and unable to work with severe ME/CFS (tipping toward very severe). Also POTS, MCAS, bipolar disorder, anxiety, and other fun things. Autism, but I don't consider that in my case as part of being disabled. When I worked, I was a social and quantitative psychologist and a statistical consultant.
ME/CFS put an end to that. Now I'm focused on entertainment (TV, reading, comics, gaming, etc.) as self-care and being a loyal pet dragon to my wife, Jalan, and father to Dragonlet (grade-schooler).
Meanwhile, I'm gray/ace/pan, some form of genderqueer (demiman?), poly, and kinky AF--with primary kinks of receiving bondage and orgasm control and denial, as well as yielding authority. I like to present genderfluid or genderfuck, especially feeling pretty dressing femme.
I'm here for general social interaction, especially geeky, often horny/sexy/kinky (CW'd), occasionally left-wing political (CW'd), some CripPosting and autism stuff, and parenting.
A whole bunch of hashtags for discoverability will be in a reply to this post.
#Intro #Introductions
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Naga (he/him)
@naga@toot.cat
I'm a disabled (severe #MECFS), #ActuallyAutistic, queer, white person in my 50s, living in North Carolina in the US. Queer, in my case -> Something not readily defined or labeled, as opposed to Queer -> fuck you. Having spent most of my life looking to the world like a cis-het man, I don't feel I readily own that. I'm progressing on my GenderQuest and currently sitting at demiman. The other part may be #agender or #GenderQueer more generally, or both. I'm not sure. My presentation is #GenderFluid or #GenderFuck, somewhere in there. My sexual orientation is "kinky." I'm gray-ace: I'm sexually pulled toward the person tying me up, largely regardless of gender or anatomy. Outside of kink, I don't really have a sexual orientation at all. My aesthetic appreciations are broad, tilted toward femme people, but not exclusively, and aren't particularly linked to my sexuality. I'm the owned and collared pet dragon of my wife, Jalan. Dragonlet is our (at this writing) nine-year-old nonbinary child. I also have a son in his early 30s from a previous marriage. We're polyamorous. Jalan has a boyfriend, but I don't have energy for another relationship right now. Most of my presence is replies, then boosts, then original posts in occasional bursts. To see just the latter to get a sense of me, try https://justmytoots.com/@naga@toot.cat .
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Naga (he/him)
@naga@toot.cat
I'm a disabled (severe #MECFS), #ActuallyAutistic, queer, white person in my 50s, living in North Carolina in the US. Queer, in my case -> Something not readily defined or labeled, as opposed to Queer -> fuck you. Having spent most of my life looking to the world like a cis-het man, I don't feel I readily own that. I'm progressing on my GenderQuest and currently sitting at demiman. The other part may be #agender or #GenderQueer more generally, or both. I'm not sure. My presentation is #GenderFluid or #GenderFuck, somewhere in there. My sexual orientation is "kinky." I'm gray-ace: I'm sexually pulled toward the person tying me up, largely regardless of gender or anatomy. Outside of kink, I don't really have a sexual orientation at all. My aesthetic appreciations are broad, tilted toward femme people, but not exclusively, and aren't particularly linked to my sexuality. I'm the owned and collared pet dragon of my wife, Jalan. Dragonlet is our (at this writing) nine-year-old nonbinary child. I also have a son in his early 30s from a previous marriage. We're polyamorous. Jalan has a boyfriend, but I don't have energy for another relationship right now. Most of my presence is replies, then boosts, then original posts in occasional bursts. To see just the latter to get a sense of me, try https://justmytoots.com/@naga@toot.cat .
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Feb 21, 2026
@stevegis_ssg As a scientist: That's fair.
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