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@realitista@lemmus.org
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@Maestro@fedia.io
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Aside from a lot of guys being thickheaded and not seeing it, there's also selection bias. A) A girl has a crush on a guy. He notices but plays it safe. Maybe she's just friendly. Result: no harm done
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It’s always good to play it safe unless evidence is so overwhelming that she’s into you. This has cost me some romantic opportunities but has also kept me from being the guy who dates all his female friends.
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@yermaw@sh.itjust.works
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A lot of the time we do know, but we’re terrified of getting it wrong and getting rejected and maybe worse.
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@HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world
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after being rejected 100 times in a row for “ew gross i don’t associate disabled people” when after a couple dates i let them see me take a blood pressure pill (hadn’t even let them see any of my mass
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@sveltecider@lemmy.ca
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Mar 09, 2026
Been there. Not blaming women either. Men are equally ableist.
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Mar 07, 2026
I somehow…didn’t fall for these?
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Mar 07, 2026
what am i even saying any more man. im scaring the new people off
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@claim_arguably@lemdro.id
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@ada@piefed.blahaj.zone
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The rise of fascism
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I was about to say we are all kinda having it.
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Mar 07, 2026
Some saw it coming
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@emirbutdumb@sh.itjust.works
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Even if i use mullvad + tor i dont think that im fully anonym. Do you have any ideas to become fully anonym?
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Mar 06, 2026
Nope. Nothing is anonymous online.
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@yizus@lemmy.world
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There are some moments in life in which a sudden self-awareness of happiness hits - a moment in which you step back from yourself and realize that, in that instant, everything is good. A feeling of yo
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@PonyOfWar@pawb.social
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Yesterday, on my bike, feeling the warm sun on my skin again after a long winter.
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Mar 05, 2026
I can’t wait for this feeling when it gets warmer.
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@als@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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If these children were so innocent, why were they living in Iran? Checkmate.
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@not_IO@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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war is peace
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@TheTechnician27@lemmy.world
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For general context, the opinion piece was published April 2014. Bezos owned The WaPo at the time and had since 2013. Author is Stanford historian and archaeologist Ian Morris.
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Mar 05, 2026
Of course it was WAPO
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Mar 05, 2026
What are some underrated communities that new users may not know of?
I’m very new here.
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@workgood@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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or even be a top result when you search google? like reddit posts
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Mar 05, 2026
I miss niche feminist communities but overall prefer this and don’t think it will ever be big. I don’t think that’s the goal.
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Mar 04, 2026
Dear Meta Smart Glasses Wearers: You’re Being Watched, Too
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Hello all! I’ve been making the switch from American to European tech, and was wondering your thoughts on Vivaldi browser and Qwant search engine. Vivaldi is based on Chromium and iirc not fully open
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Mar 03, 2026
Vivaldi is ok but it’s chromium. I use Zen.
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@Octagon9561@lemmy.ml
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@sveltecider@lemmy.ca
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Mar 03, 2026
I recommend nextDNS
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@hellerphant@piefed.social
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Hey folks! I’ve been on a quest to degoogle and get more privacy in my life. I want to strike a good balance between privacy and usability, so while the most hardened apps out there might be best for
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Mar 03, 2026
Proton is best with a generous free tier.
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@64bithero@lemmy.world
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@Goldenring@lemmy.ca
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The installation was very easy! It’s very greatful that my data doesn’t send to Google any more.
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Mar 03, 2026
I wish I didn’t give away my pixel to my friend.
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I tried windscribe and proton vpn. Neither work with tailscale running on my Mac. I have to dasiable them. Does Mullvad work alongside tailscale?
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@ejs@piefed.social
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i think you need to look into routing. Specifically, split tunneling. https://tailscale.com/learn/what-is-split-tunneling-secure-critical-data-vpn https://protonvpn.com/support/protonvpn-split-tunneli
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Mar 03, 2026
I tried split tunneling the tailscale app on windscribe. That didn’t work. I’m not like too tech literate sorry.
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So, I bought a house that just happens to have a flagpole. It was put in by the neighbor’s grandfather back when he owned the property like 60 years ago. I recently dug it up and painted it, replaced
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So far, I’m only using cost-free alternatives: Gmail -> web.de Android/Google Play -> LineageOS/FDroid Google Search -> DDG/Qwant/Ecosia Google Maps -> Openstreetmap/Organic Maps Windows/Office -> Lin
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@sveltecider@lemmy.ca
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Mar 03, 2026
I have a domain. I want to self host my email. Idk how to do that. So that cost.
But also $1ish for sync.com, proton mail free for rn, qwant is free obviously, and my domain costs like $15 a year.
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I’ve heard other sources say like 500
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Did you find this source on Lemmy.ml, by any chance?
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Mar 03, 2026
I was misremembering. Lowest estimate is 3k
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I’ve heard other sources say like 500
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Mar 03, 2026
Ok not 509. 3k from Iranian officials(it’s probably higher) and upwards of 36k. It’s probably between the two and not close to 36k
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2026_Iran_massacres
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Mar 03, 2026
I’ve heard other sources say like 500
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Mar 03, 2026
Blatant propaganda on Reddit with 6k+ upvotes
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I tried windscribe and proton vpn. Neither work with tailscale running on my Mac. I have to dasiable them. Does Mullvad work alongside tailscale?
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@sveltecider@lemmy.ca
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Mar 03, 2026
I have a nextcloud server. I’m using tailscale to connect to it remotely.
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Mar 03, 2026
Does Mullvad vpn work seamlessly with tailscale?
I tried windscribe and proton vpn. Neither work with tailscale running on my Mac. I have to dasiable them. Does Mullvad work alongside tailscale?
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@LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone
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@dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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Christians (esp. fundies) really don’t work with the same concepts as everyone else for example, homosexuality is now known to be mostly a matter of biology (of course, a repressive environment might
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Mar 03, 2026
Hot take: I really don’t care if it’s a choice or biology, I’m fine with it either way.
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@IHatePepRallies@discuss.online
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In Spanish class, we get Spanish names and can choose what we’d like to be called from a list. I’m Francisca (or Paca) because it’s similar to Francesca, my online name.
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@sveltecider@lemmy.ca
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Mar 02, 2026
I’ve never heard of someone getting a nickname in their language class. We used our real names (French class).
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Mar 02, 2026
Put down bottle LOL
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@ileftredditforthis@lemmy.world
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Serious question from someone in the UK. Is America really that racist or is it exaggerated on the internet? We do have racist pricks but I’ve never seen anything close to a ‘white supremacist’ here,
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Mar 02, 2026
Different brands of racism, really. Legacy of slavery vs colonialism.
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Or any skill that you deeply value for how it helps you, but maybe easily overlooked by an outsider? I think exercising atleast 2-3 times a week was good for me. Not that I look much different, but I
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I started using a journal to write mini goals daily
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Thank you. How is it generally structured?
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@sveltecider@lemmy.ca
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Mar 02, 2026
I do “timed goals” and “untimed”
Timed example: 45 minutes of exercise
Untimed example: eat 2-3 meals
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Mar 02, 2026
That’s for OpenAI, not Microsoft
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Mar 02, 2026
I use Linux and Mac and windows and Linux is definitely the “hardest” to use for most people day to day. I think most people on this site are in tech so they underestimate just how tech illiterate the average person is.
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I am seeing this pattern a lot lately, whenever a person disagrees strongly or expresses conservative/right wing views, they are told to go back to reddit. You can say ‘Don’t bring these bullshit view
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Redditors self-police their speech to fall in the window of acceptable debate. They are deeply brainwashed but have no idea of it because Reddit moderators ban anything not deemed “acceptable speech”
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Somehow, it’s way easier to get banned here than over there, though.
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Mar 02, 2026
Remember when CTH was banned for saying “kill slave owners”?
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Or any skill that you deeply value for how it helps you, but maybe easily overlooked by an outsider? I think exercising atleast 2-3 times a week was good for me. Not that I look much different, but I
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I started using a journal to write mini goals daily
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I bought Claude premium. I’m not rich enough for $28 CAD a month tho so im only doing one month lol
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