verolena

so whenever i hear an english person talk on tv or my gf points out that her ancestry is english, me and her ex (who also happens to be my ex) say “ELLO GUVNA!! CHEERIO OLD CHAP!” and i shout it at the tv. am i racist? i hope not…

i found it when looking at someone’s post and seeing that they were part of a community called this it looks like. it’s a conlang created by someone on lemmy and while i heard that this user wasnt doing the best mentally, they are likely doing better now. either way, this is about their conlang. when searching, i also found that they have a queer/lgbt community in the ua language.

so im kind of a mess. just turned 15 yesterday, mentally ill, just got checked out at the doctor for bulimia and trying to eat without gagging myself, and lgbt. i am nonbinary fem and pansexual :,) do you have any advice for me? life can be hard, especially for someone like me imo.

for me, id have to say 7th and 8th grade, but mainly 8th. full of hormonal, crazy 13 and 14 year olds who harassed me, found my number and address, and treated me like a subhuman.

https://youtu.be/opaPVewfvLo?si=-JwtCupqOayyKrRn 2:45

so ive seen several nicknames for my name, veronika. ive seen vero, vera, ronnie, and even nika. however, i live in the united states so im scared that if i have teachers call me nika, kids will “think” im calling myself a racial slur (the n-word) even tho i went to middle school with a nika/nikka (i forgot how to spell her name). i’m nonbinary, so ronnie could work for being short for ron, maybe aaron or veronika/veronica, but i dont really like masculine terms even tho there are plenty of girls named ronnie. i already go by vero at school sometimes, especially since in my spanish class, vero was listed as a nickname for my spanish name, which is just verónica. i am also russian-american and vera is a name there in russia. ive heard of some russian girls and characters with the name.

had a middle school ex in seventh grade who called me a “weird bisexual” and “bowling ball /bowling ball stomach”. had another kid who was a popular girl spread a rumor abt me that i was a lesbian with a crush on her bc i asked for her number but stuttered saying it because i was very socially awkward.

not that i should be online dating at my age, but my friends do it and i wonder why this happens. often times, someone will make a post (though i dont advise it) that says something like “16m gay looking for a bf” and then someone will reply with “17m dm me” and then he dms him and the 17 year old guy never talks to him again. aside from not being his type or the account being banned, what are some other reasons? like if ur up for a relationship then dont ghost the guy!! the few times i online dated were unsuccessful, one was horny, one was a catfish, and one blocked me after we started getting along.

ive only ever seen people from the major countries online, so rather than san marino or palau, theyre from places like brazil or china that ive seen.

hi, im a 14 yr old girl struggling with body image. i eat a lot of food and then i make myself vomit and poop afterwards. i am so fat im like 82 kg or 180 lbs and liposuction sounds more and more enticing if thats the word, but i heard ill just have a saggy flap of skin. maybe if not continue to vomit and poop, i will just work out like the fatass i am.

hi, so i recently discovered im more left wing (democratic) than right wing (republican), but im still not the most politically correct. earlier today we were discussing abortion and i said i felt bad for the women who the anti abortion people affect, but my friend corrected me and said i meant “people who get pregnant”, because men (like trans men but still men) can get pregnant. and not all women get pregnant so it doesnt affect them. she said it gently but i feel like an ass

hi im learning russian because i have russian ancestry. where can i go on the fediverse where they speak russian?