🧵 Check out all my articles related to specifically women's pleasure, empowerment, and sexuality, for #InternationalWomensDay.
International Women's Day articles 👉 https://carasutra.com/my/iwd
You'll find some highlights in the thread below.
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UK-based, 40+ woman navigating midlife, perimenopause, chronic illness, trauma therapy & healing. Sharing personal & sex blog updates, BDSM/FemDom/male chastity interests. Spoonie. deaf 🦻 She/her. LGBTQIA+ 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ Blog & all my links 👉
UK-based, 40+ woman navigating midlife, perimenopause, chronic illness, trauma therapy & healing. Sharing personal & sex blog updates, BDSM/FemDom/male chastity interests. Spoonie. deaf 🦻 She/her. LGBTQIA+ 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ Blog & all my links 👉
🧵 Check out all my articles related to specifically women's pleasure, empowerment, and sexuality, for #InternationalWomensDay.
International Women's Day articles 👉 https://carasutra.com/my/iwd
You'll find some highlights in the thread below.
UK-based, 40+ woman navigating midlife, perimenopause, chronic illness, trauma therapy & healing. Sharing personal & sex blog updates, BDSM/FemDom/male chastity interests. Spoonie. deaf 🦻 She/her. LGBTQIA+ 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ Blog & all my links 👉
UK-based, 40+ woman navigating midlife, perimenopause, chronic illness, trauma therapy & healing. Sharing personal & sex blog updates, BDSM/FemDom/male chastity interests. Spoonie. deaf 🦻 She/her. LGBTQIA+ 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ Blog & all my links 👉
NEW: TOPIC HUBS 🧵
I am creating new topic hubs at Cara Sutra. These pages collate articles and resources on the same subject.
I’ll add them to this thread as they go live.
Each hub acts as a resource page to help you find all related content on the blog in one place.
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I only send one email a week (hate when you subscribe to a newsletter and you start getting tons of emails, sometimes daily?!) and it includes personal updates, behind the scenes peeks and everything new on the blog. 👉
https://carasutra.com/newsletter/
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The Tremor Sex Machine Review:
Power, How It Really Feels, Comparison to Other Sex Machines
https://carasutra.com/review/the-tremor-sex-machine-review/
#SexMachine #SexTech #SexToys #SexPositive #Blogging #ContentUpdate #EvergreenContent #Affiliate
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UK-based, 40+ woman navigating midlife, perimenopause, chronic illness, trauma therapy & healing. Sharing personal & sex blog updates, BDSM/FemDom/male chastity interests. Spoonie. deaf 🦻 She/her. LGBTQIA+ 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ Blog & all my links 👉
I don't know how to say this in a kinder way, but offering me a 'sex toy to review, absolutely free!' isn't the amazing opportunity you think it is.
So you mean I'll get:
- yet another vibrator
- weeks of work
- to permanently link to you from my blog
without having to pay a penny? Oh boy!
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Anorgasmia Explained: Why You Can’t Orgasm and What to Do
https://carasutra.com/2012/12/anorgasmia-causes-solutions-orgasm/
#SexEd #SexualHealth #OrgasmEducation #SexPositive #Blogging #ContentUpdate #EvergreenContent
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UK-based, 40+ woman navigating midlife, perimenopause, chronic illness, trauma therapy & healing. Sharing personal & sex blog updates, BDSM/FemDom/male chastity interests. Spoonie. deaf 🦻 She/her. LGBTQIA+ 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ Blog & all my links 👉
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UK-based, 40+ woman navigating midlife, perimenopause, chronic illness, trauma therapy & healing. Sharing personal & sex blog updates, BDSM/FemDom/male chastity interests. Spoonie. deaf 🦻 She/her. LGBTQIA+ 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ Blog & all my links 👉
MotorBunny Sex Machine Review, with Comparison to The Sybian 🫨
https://carasutra.com/review/motorbunny-sex-machine-review/
#SexMachine #SexTech #SexToys #SexPositive #Blogging #ContentUpdate #EvergreenContent #Affiliate
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UK-based, 40+ woman navigating midlife, perimenopause, chronic illness, trauma therapy & healing. Sharing personal & sex blog updates, BDSM/FemDom/male chastity interests. Spoonie. deaf 🦻 She/her. LGBTQIA+ 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ Blog & all my links 👉
Turns out our son (13, autism dx lvl 3) is a gestalt language processor, something we had no knowledge of until his EHCP annual review last week!
Been looking into it and it's *exactly* how he started verbal comms & how he speaks now. So interesting!
We thought it was just a him thing 😂
#Autism #Autistic #Neurodivergent #Neurodivergence #Gestalt #GLP #gestaltlanguageprocessor #EHCP #Communication #Language
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UK-based, 40+ woman navigating midlife, perimenopause, chronic illness, trauma therapy & healing. Sharing personal & sex blog updates, BDSM/FemDom/male chastity interests. Spoonie. deaf 🦻 She/her. LGBTQIA+ 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ Blog & all my links 👉
That feeling on Saturday when I told my therapist I'm worried because there are times when I'm not actively upset or grieving about personal past events and she said maybe it's that you're at peace and I was like oh. OH. Fuck. That's weird.
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G-Spot Toys Guide: How to choose the best vibrators and dildos for G-spotting success 💦
https://carasutra.com/2024/04/g-spot-toys-guide/
#SexToys #SexEd #OrgasmEducation #SexPositive #BuyingGuide #Blogging #EvergreenContent #Affiliate
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Intense brain fog day but managed to write part of an upcoming new post. Hope to finish it tomorrow, but we'll see how it goes.
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UK-based, 40+ woman navigating midlife, perimenopause, chronic illness, trauma therapy & healing. Sharing personal & sex blog updates, BDSM/FemDom/male chastity interests. Spoonie. deaf 🦻 She/her. LGBTQIA+ 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ Blog & all my links 👉
How To Clean Sex Toys Safely: A Complete Hygiene Guide 🧼
https://carasutra.com/2014/05/clean-sex-toys/
#SexToys #SexEd #SexPositive #Blogging #WritingCommunity #ContentUpdate #EvergreenContent #Affiliate
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Sorry, no newsletter being sent today.
Had a very tough week health-wise and I need to rest. Hopefully back on things next week.
I hope you're all doing ok 💞
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UK-based, 40+ woman navigating midlife, perimenopause, chronic illness, trauma therapy & healing. Sharing personal & sex blog updates, BDSM/FemDom/male chastity interests. Spoonie. deaf 🦻 She/her. LGBTQIA+ 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ Blog & all my links 👉
Sex and Disability: Intimacy, Desire, and Pleasure When Bodies Have Limits
https://carasutra.com/2016/04/sex-and-disability-intimacy-pleasure/
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Recently updated:
My piece on vaginal orgasms 👉
https://carasutra.com/2019/08/rethinking-vaginal-orgasms/
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Recently updated:
My guide to the best G-spot sex toys 👉
https://carasutra.com/2024/04/g-spot-toys-guide/
UK-based, 40+ woman navigating midlife, perimenopause, chronic illness, trauma therapy & healing. Sharing personal & sex blog updates, BDSM/FemDom/male chastity interests. Spoonie. deaf 🦻 She/her. LGBTQIA+ 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ Blog & all my links 👉
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Quitting alcohol was one of the best things I ever did. Three years today 🥳
#sober #soberversary #3years #CarouselOfChaos #alcohol #quitting #health #teetotal #alcoholfree
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Loving my Witch Casket UK February 2026 box: Classic Craft Curiosities 🖤
So many gorgeous and useful pretties ✨
#witchcasket #witchcasketuk #witchcraft #spellcraft #magical
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Now watching Midsomer Murders (Series 24, episode 2; Book of the Dead)
https://app.trakt.tv/shows/midsomer-murders/seasons/24/episodes/2
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Now watching Starfleet Academy (Season 1, Episode 7)
https://app.trakt.tv/shows/star-trek-starfleet-academy/seasons/1/episodes/7
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Just watched episode 3 of Mock the Week (2026)
https://app.trakt.tv/shows/mock-the-week-2026/seasons/1/episodes/3
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It's been a fun half term with the youngest at home, but very tiring ofc. Hospital visit midweek didn't help with that!
Therapy tomorrow morning, a family day out planned on Sunday. I'll have to rest 'aggressively' whenever I can.
Hope you all have a fun weekend 😊
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UK-based, 40+ woman navigating midlife, perimenopause, chronic illness, trauma therapy & healing. Sharing personal & sex blog updates, BDSM/FemDom/male chastity interests. Spoonie. deaf 🦻 She/her. LGBTQIA+ 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ Blog & all my links 👉
Loving the new series of Mock the Week. So happy it's back 😄
Watching it via YouTube and have to compliment whoever did the subtitles as well (they don't seem automated as they're actually correct and timed properly)
#MockTheWeek #subtitles #deaf #captions #comedy #BritishHumour #satire
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UK-based, 40+ woman navigating midlife, perimenopause, chronic illness, trauma therapy & healing. Sharing personal & sex blog updates, BDSM/FemDom/male chastity interests. Spoonie. deaf 🦻 She/her. LGBTQIA+ 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ Blog & all my links 👉
UK-based, 40+ woman navigating midlife, perimenopause, chronic illness, trauma therapy & healing. Sharing personal & sex blog updates, BDSM/FemDom/male chastity interests. Spoonie. deaf 🦻 She/her. LGBTQIA+ 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ Blog & all my links 👉
Trying to stay focused on a spark of hope this Imbolc, as the light returns. 🕯️🌻
This year it feels like I need to really concentrate to see the light in the dark, instead of it coming to me, as it used to, like the sun at dawn.
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#Imbolc #Pagan #witchcraft #witchy #UKwitches #witch #altar #SeasonalLiving #WheelOfTheYear #LightReturning #WinterToSpring #SlowLiving #MindfulMoments #HealingJourney #ChronicIllness #DisabilityVoices #LifeUnscripted